happiness is the greatest gift from God

Never say that you are not happy with what you have now. Be it, your career, your family, your friends, your spouse, your problems, you financial matters, be happy with them. I know, you'll say "easy for you to say, Nani, you just got a husband to hug at nights". But don't get me wrong, being happy is the way to get over things. When I was caught up with so many things to handle in school, I often whine, asking my colleagues "why it's always me?" until they get annoyed. A friend in school told me to just smile and do the task, be positive and think it as an obligation. I did and it felt better when I stopped whining. I just realised I whine all the time. I whine when I saw any letters in my pigeon hole (letters usually signify 'meeting' or 'talk' or 'courses'), I whine when my students asked for words, for 'A Word a Day Program', I whine when I was asked to go there or everywhere. admit it. We Malaysians whine all the time. It's our nature.

Now I learn from my husband that whining is not going to fix things. He whines a lot too. But to me only. I always reminded him this and that and he'll stop the whining. So now, I'll only whine to him. Because he's mine and he cares. He doesn't mind it and it takes time for him to get annoyed with me, in fact, he cannot be annoyed with me or I'll frown the whole day. haha. I am using my husband, for the good purpose.

so ladies and gentlemen out there. stop whining. you can do this! whenever you wanted to whine just zikir some Subhanallah Walhamdulillah, Walailahaillallah Wallahuakbar. I hope you'll feel better. I did this when I wore the inai a  night before my solemnization. Every part of my body is so itchy and no one was there to ease the itchiness so I started zikir then fell asleep :P haha.

I am happy right now. to be given the chance to be with him. Alhamdulillah. Allah has answered my prayers. we'll go through thick and thin, together, yeah b? :')

:')